
For More than 50 Years,
Al-Anon Family Groups have been Helping Friends and Family Members Affected by Someone's
Drinking
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Twenty Questions to Consider
These questions can help you decide if Al-Anon is for you.*
Are You Troubled
by Someone's Drinking?
Millions of people are affected by the excessive drinking of someone
close. The following questions are designed to help you decide whether
or not you need Al-Anon.
- Do you worry about how much someone else drinks?
- Do you have money problems because of someone
else's drinking?
- Do you tell lies to cover up for someone else's
drinking?
- Do you feel that if the drinker cared about you,
he or she would stop drinking to please you?
- Do you blame the drinker's behavior on his or her
companions?
- Are plans frequently upset or canceled or meals
delayed because of the drinker?
- Do you make threats, such as, "If you don't stop
drinking, I'll leave you"?
- Do you secretly try to smell the drinker's
breath?
- Are you afraid to upset someone for fear it will
set off a drinking bout?
- Have you been hurt or embarrassed by a drinker's
behavior?
- Are holidays and gatherings spoiled because of
drinking?
- Have you considered calling the police for help
in fear of abuse?
- Do you search for hidden alcohol?
- Do you ever ride in a car with a driver who has
been drinking?
- Have you refused social invitations out of fear
or anxiety?
- Do you feel like a failure because you can't
control the drinking?
- Do you think that if the drinker stopped
drinking, your other problems would be solved?
- Do you ever threaten to hurt yourself to scare
the drinker?
- Do you feel angry, confused, or depressed most of
the time?
- Do you feel there is no one who understands your
problems?
*Reprinted with permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.
You will find help.
If you answered "Yes" to any of the questions, Al-Anon can help.
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